Thoughts on Gender Essentialism

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To be woman is to be human

and not just the soft half

of a gendered whole.

Hold the expansiveness of possibility

in your mind and

mind the unease of

this seemingly new way

of being

that has always been

before the Father’s rule.

Woman:

any human who associates closely

with the socially constructed roles,

responsibilities, interests, joys

and sorrows related to

being a human female.

Subversion of power for sale.

“Provide and protect” become

“Destroy and harm” when we pull

back the veil of patriarchal secrecy.

When we dare to speak freely.

My mother’s double mastectomy

and hysterectomy taught me

that there’s no right way

to be a woman.

Society would say her

life-saving surgeries